The Rudraksha Mala

Recently, I was invited to a very special birthday party! My friend’s father was turning 100. That is definitely a landmark birthday!

Quite a few of us gathered to celebrate in his spacious room at the assisted living facility where he resided. He was known and beloved by those in attendance. He had such a gentle and kind nature. Also, in his day, also quite sharp and informed.

At one point several years ago, when attempting to write a novel, I emailed some of my writings to him. He responded with detailed feedback which let me know he had truly given importance and attention to my writing attempts. I found that to be very touching (and helpful!).

Back to the festivities…During a moment when no one was by his bed, I wandered over to spend a bit of time with him. His eyes were closed as if fast asleep. I understood he had been largely unresponsive on this evening. But, nonetheless, I leaned over and spoke to him. I had brought him a wrist mala, a Rudraksha Mala, that I bought in Ganeshpuri on my most recent trip to India, as a birthday gift. (It’s worn around the wrist and can be used for mantra - prayer - repetition.)

I slipped the mala onto his wrist and quietly explained that it was from Ganeshpuri, and mentioned Bhagavan Nityananda. (This very great being, this great Indian saint, had spent considerable time in this town in India during the latter part of his life, and his Samadhi Shrine can be found there.)

Holding his hand, I spoke to him of this. And, suddenly, to my great surprise, a gentle smile appeared on his face…

In that moment, I did sense that he could feel the power, grace and blessing of this gift from Ganeshpuri, the land of Bhagavan Nityananda.

Not three weeks later, one quiet evening, he gently and very peacefully departed this world. I had the privilege to attend his memorial. In a brief share, I thanked him for that wonderful moment of goodbye during his birthday celebration. And, I was alerted later to the fact that he was actually wearing the mala. It was open casket, and there it was…

Again, I was so touched. This love that is Bhagavan Nityananda was, indeed, accompanying him.

Such is the way of great beings. Their love is eternal and always there.

Fare thee well on your continued, light-filled journey, my friend. Fare thee well.

Annie Kiyonaga

September 27, 2025